BDSM is my profession and my vocation and a part of my sexuality. As wonderful as working with sexuality and eroticism is - it is not always easy. Sometimes you want to exchange ideas, talk things through or get a second opinion; often your own environment is not open to it, or you are looking for the help of an experienced person.

In my work as a professional dominatrix I have guided many colleagues*, accompanied profound processes and answered questions. As a trained social worker I understand systemic structures, hidden processes and empathetic conversation. I help you bring clarity to your thoughts and support you in your development around BDSM. My approach is direct and practical. I don’t straighten you out - I walk part of your path with you and support you as you find your own insights.

Who can turn to me?

(Aspiring) colleagues*

You want to get into professional BDSM and are looking for an experienced mentor? You already work but feel unsure and want a professional opinion? In intimate 1:1 conversations we take on your topics: practice sessions, talks, input on marketing, client management and much more.

Private individuals

You have a topic around BDSM and are looking for another opinion. Is the search for play partners not working out, even though you have already made the rounds of every regulars’ table? You want to find out for yourself whether your newly discovered inclination authentically belongs to you? Your partner is vanilla and you are unsure how to deal with BDSM now? These and many more are topics I am happy to work on with you. Perhaps you also want to train yourself in individual workshops to surprise your play partners.

Couples / relationship groups

You have freshly discovered BDSM for yourselves and are unsure how you want to integrate it? You have been playing for a while but need guidance? Something isn’t running smoothly and you are looking for a fresh perspective on the situation? I am happy to work with you as a couple or in your chosen relationship constellation (poly structures, play relationships etc.).

The mentoring takes place in person through conversation or practical exercises - online via video chat or directly on site in Berlin at my BDSM Studio LUX. Depending on the topic and your wishes, one to several sessions may make sense. I will of course treat the content and our arrangements mindfully and discreetly. People of all classes, every background, every gender identity and with every body are welcome.

Please note that I am not a certified therapist and cannot treat clinical conditions. However, I can try to refer you to therapists who are open to your topics.

Here you can find the coaching page: Coaching & Mentoring.

The comprehensive professional coaching and information on dominatrix training can be found under: Pro BDSM.